Prepare Your Pan: Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease a 9x13 inch baking pan thoroughly and line with parchment paper for easy removal.
Mix Wet Ingredients: Cream the softened butter and sugar together in a large bowl. Beat until light and fluffy, about 2-3 minutes. Add vanilla extract and mix well.
Add Eggs and Sour Cream: Beat in the eggs one at a time, making sure each egg incorporates fully before adding the next. Stir in the sour cream until smooth.
Add Bananas: Fold in the mashed bananas. The mixture should be well combined but don't overmix. Some small banana chunks are perfectly fine.
Combine Dry Ingredients: In a separate bowl, whisk together flour, baking soda, and salt to ensure even distribution of leavening agents.
Bring It Together: Gradually add the dry ingredients to the wet mixture. Stir gently until just combined. Don't overmix—this keeps the bars tender.
Pour and Spread: Pour the batter into your prepared pan. Spread it evenly with a spatula. The batter will be thick and spreadable.
Bake: Bake for 30-35 minutes. The bars are done when a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. The top should be golden brown.
Cool: Let the bars cool completely in the pan, about 1-2 hours. Don't rush this step before frosting.
Make the Frosting: Beat the softened cream cheese and butter together until fluffy, about 3-4 minutes on medium speed. Add vanilla extract and mix. Gradually add powdered sugar, one cup at a time. Beat until smooth and creamy.
Frost and Serve: Spread the frosting evenly over cooled bars using an offset spatula. Cut into squares and enjoy.